• Why do I keep picking addicts to date?
    Why do I keep picking addicts to date?
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    Psych Central

    Simply put, the more intensely you are attracted to someone, the more likely you are to repeat an old pattern. This is kind of bad news if you want to be swept off your feet. It’s fun to be swept away, madly in love, but let’s say you have decided to try it a different way.

    You are being cautious, you are only relating to people who seem sincere, responsible, grown-up. And yet here comes someone who is all those things and wildly attractive too!

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  • Clitoral orgasm. Is it the only option?
    Clitoral orgasm. Is it the only option?
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    Lightfoot-Klein

    What can we learn from what men are able to tell us? Comment by Burton has survived his widow’s destructive zeal. He observes that Pharaonic circumcision tends to have quite the opposite effect it strives to achieve. It does not dampen the sex drive in women but tends to create a tendency toward sexual voraciousness in them instead. The removal of their sexual parts, he explains, makes it more difficult for them to achieve sexual satisfaction, hence it intensifies their desire.

    Some of the women I interview do indeed volunteer that when they want more sex in the middle of the night, they bang pots and pans about to wake their husbands.

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  • Perhaps you really ARE ok?
    Perhaps you really ARE ok?
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    Marc&Angel

    We all have days, weeks, months and – for some – even years of feeling anxious and uncertain. It’s a vague feeling you can’t quite put your finger on. From the outside, people think you have it all together, but they can’t see what’s going on in your head. Emptiness fills your thoughts and emotions all too often, nagging at you throughout the day. You set goals but they never satisfy your ego. You always feel a day late and a buck short. The search can seem almost endless.

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  • Is this the most important sexual question you will ever ask?
    Is this the most important sexual question you will ever ask?
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    AlterNet

    For me, good means that you are in the moment with me, that you respect my desires as worthy, and that you pay attention when I express myself verbally and non-verbally. And I, of course, will make every effort to do the same for you.

    So what was the magic question? What did he ask that leapfrogged us from normal to special?

    “How do you get yourself off,” he asked, “when you’re all alone?” I get goosebumps just thinking about it.

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  • Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?
    Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?
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    Sam Vaknin

    It is not that narcissists are incapable of expressing what we would tend to classify as “extreme emotional reactions”. They mourn and grieve, rage and smile, excessively “love” and “care”. But this is precisely what sets them apart: this rapid movement from one emotional extreme to another and the fact that they never occupy the emotional middle ground.

    The narcissist is especially “emotional” when weaned off his drug of Narcissistic Supply. Breaking a habit is always difficult – especially one that defines (and generates) oneself. Getting rid of an addiction is doubly taxing. The narcissist misidentifies these crises with an emotional depth and his self-conviction is so immense, that he mostly succeeds to delude his environment, as well.

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  • Are you really friends — or did you just convince yourself you are?
    Are you really friends — or did you just convince yourself you are?
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    PsyPost

    The finding is surprising because adding someone to your friend list is a low-cost, quick and effortless gesture and might not necessarily be seen as a meaningful start to a relationship. Unlike buying someone you just met a cup of coffee, adding someone to your friend list has little intrinsic value.

    But we did expect this to happen because human beings have a natural predilection for cognitive consistency.

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  • Meaning in meaninglessness.
    Meaning in meaninglessness.
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    Brain Pickings

    I understood that faith is not merely “the evidence of things not seen”, etc., and is not a revelation (that defines only one of the indications of faith, is not the relation of man to God (one has first to define faith and then God, and not define faith through God); it does not only agree with what has been told one (as faith is most usually supposed to be), but faith is a knowledge of the meaning of human life in consequence of which man does not destroy himself but lives.

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