This is the standard reading list I send to all my premarital and marriage clients. It is a collection of resources in a number of related areas we have found to be well crafted and thought out.
Abba’s Child – Brennan Manning
Go away, Come closer – Terry Hershey
Waking the Dead — J. Eldredge
Gender ID/marriage building:
The marriage builder – Larry Crabb.
Men and woman: Enjoying the difference – Larry Crabb
Boundaries Face to Face – Cloud and Townsend
We’re finally alone, now what do we do – off my file server.
Wild at Heart (For Him)/Captivating (For Her) — J & S. Eldredge
Sexuality for marriage:
How to be a great lover – Lou Paget (For Her)
How to give her absolute pleasure – Lou Paget (For Him)
The Big O – Lou Paget (For Her)
How to make love all night – May be again in print or off of fileserver. (For Him)
237 questions every woman should ask a man – May be again in print or off of fileserver. (For Both)
Healing of sexual abuse/addiction: AB/AD
The wounded heart – Dan Allender (No more then a chapter a week — preferably less) AB
Eros Defiled – White AB/AD
Eros Redeemed – White AB/AD
Sexual Anorexia – Carnes (PeanutPress.com) AB/AD
Out of the shadows — Carnes (PeanutPress.com) AD
To access our file server, go to links menu at right, pull down the menu, select H&A File Server –>Public –>Psychological and just double click the book etc.
The assorted media in question should download to your desktop and probably auto-open as well. The books on the file server are out of print and this is the only way I have found for people to access them.