• Making friends after young adulthood…
    Making friends after young adulthood…
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    The other thing is that making friends when we’re younger, while maybe not always easy, was somewhat of a necessity. From the time we’re in kindergarten to when we graduate college, friendship-making is such an important part of our social and personal development, it’s almost not even optional.

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  • Sustaining Intimacy in Marriage
    Sustaining Intimacy in Marriage
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    intimacy in marriage:“Everyone agreed that after a full day’s work both men and women are weary

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  • Stages of Affairs
    Stages of Affairs
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    Infidelity, Cheating Wives – Women’s Infidelity:“Women at Stage 3 may also be experiencing the

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  • Others Provoking us to Anger
    Others Provoking us to Anger
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    Shovel Writings: Forgiveness Response:

    “Your emotions are letting you know that you are viewing yourself and/or others by your yardstick … while the gospel declares that your yardstick is the thing you have been saved from … he snapped it into little bitty pieces. Chances are that if the emotions are hanging on after seeing the situation in the reality of Christ that those emotions are being stirred up by something else. I have often discovered that my hateful feelings were not really about the person who said something derogatory to me, but in the simple fact that I had been damning myself in that particular thing for years! Once I got past the bogus notion that SOMEBODY ELSE was to blame for my feelings of inferiority I was able to see the obvious fact that my anger was toward myself! But I had for the longest time transferred the blame, and therefore, the corresponding feelings to another. And so I tried and tried in vain to forgive them (or even to see them in Christ) … and I wondered why I felt these things toward them.
    And, in this, I am once again presented with the reality of life vs. death. My Father has given me something tangible to behold and to declare that THIS TOO has been removed by Christ! This is His Spirit witnessing with my spirit and it is saturated with life.”

    This is an excellent point about the real source of anger towards others. I pray we stop measuring one another and ourselves.

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  • Overreaching Relationships
    Overreaching Relationships
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    Give it some time to let the awkwardness and pain go away before trying to be best buds with the girl….

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  • God’s Will is Trusting God’s Spirit in Believers All the Time
    God’s Will is Trusting God’s Spirit in Believers All the Time
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    Shovel Writings: The Peace of Christ – 2:

    “ Now, was Paul
    teaching us to learn to distinguish the feelings of the Spirit from the
    feelings of the world?  Was he then asking us to trust those
    feelings of peace we get from the Spirit?  Is this what it means
    to be ”led by the Spirit“?  It may be the popular teaching, but if
    Paul TAUGHT it where did he WRITE it?  I read his letters and I
    see someone who would never establish a practice of making
    decisions based on a relative sense of ”peace“.  Instead, he
    constantly insisted on basing all things on what Christ had ALREADY
    accomplished. ”

    This is an excellent article clearly stating that God is leading through His Spirit 24/7. (ROM 8:14) This is a great article for married couples who sometimes have difficulty completely trusting their spouse is in “God’s will.”

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  • Definition of Sexual Addiction
    Definition of Sexual Addiction
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    Sexual addiction – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia:“According Patrick Carnes (Out of the Shadows)

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