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  • Struggling with your marriage,

    an addiction, or a loss that won't heal?

    You found us. We know how to help.

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  • A husband & wife team.

     

       28+ years of Christian

          Counselling in Calgary.

             Zero judgment. Ever.

    Henze & Associates: Christian marriage counselling Calgary. Registered Psychologist providing Christian counselling in Calgary. Couples and family therapy rooted in faith and grace. Individual psychotherapy and spiritual direction in Calgary.


  • Our Mission: Family, marriage and couples therapy including young children. Our Mission

    We help marriages survive addiction, betrayal, trauma, and loss — and come back stronger than before.

    Our story
  • Our Purpose: Grief, loss and depression psychotherapy. Our Purpose

    Not just coping — real transformation, integrated with faith, at the pace you need. Hearts set free to truly live.

    How we work

Featured Article: 7 Steps for Surviving Severe Trauma

So, what is trauma therapy anyway?

Why can two people experience the same trauma, yet one develops severe PTSD while the other recovers with relatively few lasting effects?

Can their different responses teach us practical skills, and are there techniques that help us cope with even life-threatening events so we emerge stronger, more resilient, and able to keep living fully?

Most importantly, can we learn to heal ourselves?

Two months ago, a speeding truck ran a red light, swerved into my lane, and slammed into the front of my van. That night, as I tried to sleep, my mind kept replaying frozen images of the crash, jolting me awake in panic. It became clear I was experiencing early signs of trauma and needed to apply the same tools I use every day with my clients.

Join me for a first-person look at trauma recovery, practical healing skills, and how our Calgary Counselling Services can help.

Premium Care

  • Uniquely integrated

    Experience a Registered Psychologist providing Registered Christian Psychological Counseling.

  • Relaxed Atmosphere

    Comfortable, quiet and nowhere near clinical. Just a safe place for you to have a coffee and unwind.

  • 90 Min. Sessions Available

    Forget about the clock! Understanding anyone's thoughts and feelings takes time, and we make sure you have it.

  • Trusted Experience

    More than twenty-eight years of professional excellence in calling hearts and relationships back to life!

  • Judgment Free

    Your heart is safe here. It's all about strengthening people and marriages - not taking them apart.

  • Husband/Wife Team

    Trust those who have been there and value your commitment as much as you do.

  • New Covenant Faith

    Relationship, freedom and grace! Reclaim the choices you never thought were available to you.

  • Values Based

    Marriages restored, intimacy transformed, families preserved, dignity protected and freed people empowered.

Counselling Calgary: Services offered at our Calgary Counselling Center

Christian Counselling Calgary / Christian Psychologist Calgary

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Cal is a Registered Psychologist, and both Cal & Roslyn are Registered Christian Counsellors, Certified Professional Counsellors — part of a larger general psychology practice with other Registered Psychologists. If you're searching for a Christian therapist in Calgary who truly shares your faith and values, you've found us.

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    What does "Christian Counselling" mean here?

    We all experience stresses and painful life events that challenge our faith and test our emotional health. While we trust that God has a plan, sometimes we have more questions than answers as we struggle through life's most difficult problems — and we need someone who truly understands.

    At Henze and Associates, clients from a Christian faith background often strongly prefer to meet with a counsellor who shares their beliefs. (The term "Christian Counselling Calgary" is one of the most common search terms used by those seeking counselling in Calgary or southern Alberta.) When seeking a Christian psychologist in Calgary, many people simply want to know their therapist is a Christian. But if you're reading this, you probably have something more specific in mind.

    So, what does Christian Counselling mean to you? Perhaps you want the Bible or spiritual resources used in your therapy. Perhaps your values about marriage need to be respected. Perhaps you're seeking Spiritual Direction. Whatever you need, we tailor your treatment plan to remain deeply respectful of your faith as we integrate spirituality with cutting-edge psychological care.

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    Will my insurance or employee benefits cover this?

    Money is tight for everyone, and employer benefits can save you hundreds or even thousands of dollars. Most insurance companies require the counsellor to be a member of a provincially registered governing body such as the College of Alberta Psychologists. If insurance coverage matters to you, it's important to check what your individual benefits company requires — and Cal, as a Registered Psychologist, meets the requirements of most major plans.

Telehealth & Telepsychology: Phone & Video Counselling Calgary

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Can't leave home? We come to you. For over eighteen years, Henze & Associates has delivered high-quality online counselling by phone and secure video — the same 28+ years of experience healing hearts and relationships, accessible from your own home.

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    Who is online counselling right for?

    Are you getting tired of living in confusion and uncertainty? Struggling to just get through the day? Feeling overwhelmed with grief, panic, or fear for those you love? Childcare, illness, distance, or a busy schedule can all make it hard to leave home — and you shouldn't have to miss care because of logistics.

    We understand, and we know how to help. Our confidential, easy-to-use technology lets us seamlessly deliver the same quality of care you'd receive in person. You don't have to walk alone. Reach out for a video counselling session today.

Addiction Focused Couples Counselling Calgary

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Sex Addiction Calgary: After keeping the family secrets of hypersexuality for years, it can feel overwhelming to speak to a sex therapist. Many Calgary couples we see have called — and hung up — on several counsellors before finally booking with us. We understand. Your heart is safe here, and your values will be respected.

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    What does healing sexual addiction actually involve?

    It's hard enough to find quality counselling in Calgary for general issues, without adding the complexity of marriage, sexual addiction, and couples sex therapy. Healing hypersexuality or sexual addiction requires a multifaceted approach that often includes:

    Every part of your life and relationship deserves to be taken seriously. Healing sexual addiction must extend to the whole person — spirit, mind, body, and trauma — as well as to the precious gift of your relationship. Experience truly integrated care today.

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    Will my faith and marriage values be respected?

    Christian Marriage Counselling and Christian Addictions Counselling are two areas where faith matters most to the people we serve. Many clients have shared fears that they would be counselled to end their marriages, or that their values around sex and relationships would be undermined. That will never happen here. We share your values and work alongside you toward the goals you have for your marriage and family.

Marriage Counselling Calgary for Couples with Trauma

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Couples PTSD Counselling Calgary: Whether it's military or police service, the traumatic death of a loved one, sexual assault, or childhood abuse — deep inside, you know something shattered. The flashbacks are getting worse. Your relationship is starting to suffer. Some problems can't be fixed in three sessions. But that doesn't mean they can't be healed. We can help.

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    What if I've already tried everything?

    You've likely tried grief groups, Cognitive Behavioural techniques, EMDR, body or yoga-based approaches, and just gritting your teeth — but it's not working. And your precious relationship seems to be falling apart along with your inner world.

    The key question is whether a therapy merely teaches coping, or whether it facilitates a deep transformation of emotion and belief. That distinction is the most effective measure of both the therapy and the therapist.

    Our passion for real and lasting change has led us to cutting-edge modalities: Emotion-Focused Therapy for Couples with Trauma (EFT-T) for PTSD within the couple relationship, and Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) for individual Critical Stress Injuries. We also draw on Somatic Experiencing resources — authors such as Peter Levine — to support your journey between sessions.

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    What does your trauma approach look like?

    We're not about quick fixes. We and our associates use a highly integrated, emotion-focused, person-centred approach that starts by creating stability and secure attachment in your marriage, then applies that same focus to restoring attachment in your inner world.

    We don't heal you — we teach you how to put the shattered pieces back together for yourself, so you will never remain broken again.

Calgary Counselling Services Article Links

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Calgary Counselling Articles: Our Session Notes Blog contains more than 900 articles, resources, and insights that we, our clients, and those we train have found helpful over the years. Our Articles Page offers something different—a collection of specialized resources created by our team and the network of Registered Psychologists, Registered Christian Psychologists, Registered Christian Counsellors, Certified Professional Counsellors, and Counselling Therapists of Alberta we are proud to work alongside.

Written by our team and guest contributors, these articles and RSS Feeds provide practical, up-to-date psychological information that focuses on specific areas of need, allowing us to explore important topics in greater depth while keeping our main counselling site accessible and welcoming.

Four Pillars. All or Nothing. Let’s be clear: this isn’t about tips and tricks for doing marriage “better.” It’s about building something that can actually stand. Something that can move, breathe, and hold weight.

Click the "Latest Article" button to understand how you can re-bargain the collective agreement of your relationship.

Frequently Asked Questions: Christian Counselling Calgary

Christian counselling integrates evidence-based psychological methods with a faith perspective. At Henze & Associates, this means your therapist shares your Christian worldview and can incorporate Scripture, prayer, and spiritual direction into your treatment if you wish — while also applying the same clinical rigour as any registered psychologist. It is not one or the other; it is both.

No. We welcome anyone seeking high-quality, compassionate counselling. Many of our clients come for the clinical expertise and the non-judgmental atmosphere rather than the faith integration specifically. You set the terms of your treatment plan.

Cal Henze is a Registered Psychologist with the College of Alberta Psychologists, which means his sessions are covered by the majority of Canadian employee benefit plans that require provincial registration. Roslyn Henze is a Registered Christian Counsellor and Certified Professional Counsellor. We recommend confirming your specific plan’s requirements before your first session. Contact us and we can help you check.

Yes. We have offered phone and secure video counselling for over 18 years. Sessions are conducted through confidential, easy-to-use platforms and are available to clients anywhere in Alberta.

Yes — and this is one of our areas of expertise. Sexual addiction affects both partners and the relationship itself. We work with the couple together as well as each person individually, using an integrated approach that addresses the addiction, the attachment injury to the relationship, trauma, and the spiritual dimensions of healing. See our Intimate Freedom resource for more.

Standard sessions are 60 minutes, but we offer 90-minute and 120-minute sessions for clients who need more time to work through complex issues — particularly couples dealing with trauma, addiction, or relationship repair. You should never feel rushed. We make sure you have the time you need.

Our primary areas of work include couples and marriage counselling, sexual addiction and sex therapy, trauma and PTSD (including couples PTSD), grief and bereavement, anxiety and depression, and addictions counselling. We also offer spiritual direction and work with individuals, couples, and families. See our full services page for a complete list.

The easiest way is to fill out our contact form, or call/text us at 403 819 3545. We respond promptly and will work with your schedule. You can also email us at info@henze-associates.com.

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