Calgary Couples Counselling: Reclaiming Passionate Connection
September 5, 2025 Comments Off on Calgary Couples Counselling: Reclaiming Passionate Connection

Calgary Couples Counselling: There’s an enormous gap between public perception of what a marriage therapist does all day and what we actually do. In the mind of the general public, a Calgary Couples Counselling office is continually filled with cataclysmic problems: domestic violence, infidelity, addiction, sexual dysfunction, and other pathologies. While these are seen as our bread and butter, the reality is far more benign.
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Calgary Marriage Counselling: Why can’t you just love me?
September 27, 2024 Comments Off on Calgary Marriage Counselling: Why can’t you just love me?

Sometimes the pain positively oozes through the questions asked during our Calgary Marriage Counselling Sessions:

Why can’t you love me for who I am?
Shouldn’t you just love and want me for me?
Why is it so hard to love me for who I am inside?
Why does my appearance stand between me and your love?
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Calgary Sex Therapy: Naked and Shameless Part #3: Sensational Sexual Healing!
March 15, 2021 Comments Off on Calgary Sex Therapy: Naked and Shameless Part #3: Sensational Sexual Healing!

Over two decades ago, I encountered newly retired addictions counselling and Calgary Sex Therapy client who I’ve never been able to forget. His struggles with sex and relationships had, at that point, gone on for over thirty-five years and, throughout that time, he had amassed over a thousand sexual partners – mostly paid sex workers – in virtually every major city in the world.
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Sex Therapy Calgary: Naked and Shameless Part #2: Liberating passionate love!
March 8, 2021 Comments Off on Sex Therapy Calgary: Naked and Shameless Part #2: Liberating passionate love!

Sex Therapy Calgary: Regardless of whether we grow up surrounded by the rules and controls of religion or simply have our attitudes and beliefs shaped by society’s taboos, almost no one reaches adulthood in North America without a deeply ingrained sense that sex is dirty and defiling.
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Sex Therapy Calgary: Naked and Shameless Part #1: Understanding Sexual Fantasy
February 22, 2021 Comments Off on Sex Therapy Calgary: Naked and Shameless Part #1: Understanding Sexual Fantasy

Sex Therapy Calgary: A young wife was struggling deeply in her sexual relationship with her husband. About halfway through the session, she got reticent and then began to weep.
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Couples Counselling Calgary: Protect your relationship from marriage counsellors.
September 12, 2020 1 Comment on Couples Counselling Calgary: Protect your relationship from marriage counsellors.

Couples Counselling Calgary: One of the most surprising discoveries we made when we first opened our Calgary Counselling Services related to the reasons most of our marriage and couples counselling clients were coming to see us. Now well over 20 years ago, it was obvious to all of them that Henze and Associates was a new Calgary counselling centre and even more apparent that we were both fresh out of school and only barely knew what we were doing.
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Why can’t we just say it?
June 25, 2020 1 Comment on Why can’t we just say it?

Why can’t we just say it?

What is it about our society that keeps most people believing that everyone thinks just like they do while, simultaneously, communicating to the minority that they are the only ones? And, will anything induce us to change our path?
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Surviving infidelity: Is there healing after an affair?
April 25, 2017 Comments Off on Surviving infidelity: Is there healing after an affair?

After nineteen years as a Calgary couples counsellor, I now get the desperate emails and the frantic phone calls practically all the time:

My wife cheated on me…

My husband had an affair…
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How to raise a victim of childhood sexual abuse
February 18, 2017 1 Comment on How to raise a victim of childhood sexual abuse

Just for a moment, let’s completely ignore the tragic cascade of underage child abuse victims themselves acting out the same behaviours on other minor family members or peers where the perpetrator really is as much a victim as the the one being abused.

Have you ever tried, even for just a few seconds, to step inside the mind of the most hardened adult sexual offenders and imagine what they need to see in a child to begin taking steps towards victimizing him or her? Is there a pattern? Why would they target one child and completely ignore another?
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Turning hearts back together again
February 9, 2016 Comments Off on Turning hearts back together again

From the very moment of our births, we all seek to connect. Within seconds, we utter our first cry – and it’s a cry to be held. Our eyes seem unable to rest until they find the gaze of our parents and our hearts long to know that safe place of gentle, unconditional love.
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Session Notes

Calgary Couples Counselling: Reclaiming Passionate Connection

Calgary Marriage Counselling: Why can’t you just love me?

Calgary Sex Therapy: Naked and Shameless Part #3: Sensational Sexual Healing!

Sex Therapy Calgary: Naked and Shameless Part #2: Liberating passionate love!

Sex Therapy Calgary: Naked and Shameless Part #1: Understanding Sexual Fantasy

Couples Counselling Calgary: Protect your relationship from marriage counsellors.

Why can’t we just say it?

Surviving infidelity: Is there healing after an affair?

How to raise a victim of childhood sexual abuse

Turning hearts back together again

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